Many go on to college or tech school where they can dip into a large pool of likely dating candidates. Customs differ The Amish, like we outsiders, are not a monolithic society.Amish children also mix socially in school but there are a few major differences. Differences between individual districts can be varied and complex.
There is plenty of time between songs to talk and socialize. The group will then hang around for an hour or two after singing with the unattached boys and girls sizing each other up as likely partners.So in these households, the old reasons for bed courtship remain.It is an old custom and these ultra-conservative churches stubbornly cling to old traditions.Just as in the outside world, it might take someone several tries to find a lifelong partner.The more conservative couples practice traditional Amish dating customs.