To start, pursue doesn’t mean sit idly by and wait for the man to do all of the work.
It also doesn’t mean waste time waiting for him to decide that you’re committing to.
Letting a man pursue you doesn’t mean that you can’t let him know that you’re interested.
Give him the green light to proceed and trust that if he likes you, he will.
If you’re dating someone who isn’t moving as fast as you would like, just wait. The emphasis on patience is this: don’t take action because you’re afraid that the guy won’t.
A relationship built on insecurity will never last.
Or even worse, settle for treatment that is less than what you deserve.
If you want a relationship with a guy, there is to make him yours.
But before you jump into action, assess what his level of interest is. Often, a man is making it crystal clear that he doesn’t want a relationship.
There is no amount of pursuit that you can offer, that will get a man into a relationship who doesn’t want to be in one.
Taking action seems more appealing than lying wait but why would you want to work that hard to get a man?