All in all, I recommend that women in their early to mid 20s focus their efforts on men in the 25-35 range.Young women are somewhat resistant to this idea, I have found.The reality is that many men date multiple women for the same reasons women date a lot of men.They are looking for “the one.” A lot of these perceived players are simply playing the numbers game, hoping to find that special someone as quickly as possible so that they don’t have to endlessly date anymore.They tend to wonder why such a “great catch” is still on the market. Is he a reformed player who’s trying to hop off the carousel and find a good girl to marry?Listening recently to a woman describe relationship woes with a man ten years older than she is, I noticed her friends were quick to say, “That’s why he’s 32 and single.” That seems awfully harsh to me – 30 is the median marriage age for college educated women.The question of age difference for mating can be a controversial one. We might expect some eyebrows to be raised if Alain tries to date 19 year old Yvette. (It’s not known when the rule came into being, but it is referenced in the 1953 movie Note that the peak of physical attractiveness is from 25-30. However, his confidence and charm are ascending at this time, and are just below his peak physical attractiveness.
But I’m also happy with myself and just because I might have a desire to be with someone…
This is especially true when it comes to the perception of men in society who are constantly dating different women. If a man dates many women and is single past a certain age, women often make the assumption that he must be flawed in some way, a womanizer or a man that refuse to grow up.
Women will then label these men as guys who are not serious candidates for long-term relationships.
According to a recent survey of adult sexual behavior, men over the age of 40 were two to three times more likely to report a lack of sexual interest compared to men under the age of 30.
In many cases, that precipitous drop-off has to do with a natural decrease in testosterone, the male sex hormone that allows you to sustain an erection, ejaculate and have an orgasm.