These are things that a wife does for her husband, not a mother.But what happens is the wife can never do it BEFORE his mother does. If his wife was going to bring him lunch on the job, the mother gets there first.He said that the two of them would become one flesh.This is a picture of marital intimacy—the act of love that is never to involve anyone else.They know that the wife cooks for him, cleans, buys him clothes, etc.and that those things STOPPED when he became a man and got married. The last time you went over to his mom’s place (which is probably weekly), she asked you if your test came back from the doctors.I always hated high-school shows and high-school movies, because they were always about the cool kids.It was always about dating and sex, and all the popular kids, and the good-looking kids.
As recorded in Genesis chapter 2, God created Adam first, and then Eve. God Himself ordained that they would be joined together in holy matrimony.
But now that you are married to him you realize that he actually "worships" his mother like she is "God himself" and you are just one of the other people in the room with no special qualities.
If he is married she still buys him clothes, takes him out to eat, and even comes to his place of work to either help him or just watch him work.
Leaving your parents means recognizing that your marriage created a new family and that this new family must be a higher priority than your previous family.
If spouses neglect to cleave to each other, the result is a lack of intimacy and unity.