They think they’ll run into all kinds of loose vaginas and bodies covered in stretch marks. When I was 36 I was messing around with an 18 year-old who had had one child, and she indeed had lots of stretch marks on her lower stomach. I could go on, but unless you’re extremely picky, this body issue with single mothers really is no big deal. A) She’s been in my life at least five or six months without any drama, and I know exactly how the woman fits into my life.While I admit I have run into this occasionally, I can tell you from my experience this is usually not the case, especially if you stick with younger women (but even if you don’t). However, the rest of her body was 100% 18-year-old-perfect, including being tight as a drum, if you know what I’m saying. One of the tightest women I ever had sex with was a 40 year-old who had single mothers who had bodies that, while naked and having sex in full light, you could not tell that an entire baby had ever passed through them. Her Ex It should go without saying that if you start dating a single mother, you should avoid all contact with her baby daddy, assuming he’s still in the picture. One of the stipulations when I got married years ago was that my son’s biological dad could not be in her life (And he wasn’t.) Spending any time whatsoever with her ex, in any context whatsoever, is going to equal drama. or B) I know for 100% that she’s a pure FB-only and will never be anything more.It's not true, single moms are great women who deserve a chance.Here are the ten reasons you should date a single mom.If she’s flexible, low-drama, low-jealousy, and fun to be with, there should be no reason whatsoever to not have or pursue a serious relationship with her.Don't listen to the assumptions and over opinionated bunch that associates single moms with the 'D' word - drama.Over 33, there are indeed many provider hunters, but that’s because they’re over 33, not because they have children.(I have run into over-33 provider hunters who did not have any kids.
The fact she chose to make babies with an irresponsible moron before she (or he) could afford them is her fault, not your fault. At the same time, don’t discount her just because she has kids.
I recognise that in the short to medium term my dating life is going to be very separate from my parenting life, but at some point, if we are going to have a long term relationship, my two lives are going to have to converge.
Fully 50% of every woman I have ever had sex with, or had a relationship with, was a single mother.
Again, the issue is age, not motherhood status.) So if you find a single mother on your radar and she’s under the age of 33, don’t worry about her looking for some man to marry ASAP to help her raise her kids. (Her own mother and the government welfare state are her “husband”…she doesn’t need you.) Logistics Now we’re getting into something that really can be a problem with single mothers, and that’s logistics.
Scheduling dates and meets with single mothers is often extremely difficult.