" Clearly, this simple review resonated with a lot of folks on Goodreads.
The mere concept of female geeks is often outright ignored; forced into narrow, allowed areas; or outright challenged and denied.
Get emotional Nerds generally have this fascination with girls and all things girly.
There seems to be conflicting opinions on how a (non-geek) girlfriend should deal with her nerd of a boyfriend.
As of the time of this posting, I still have not read this book.
I turned down the author's offer of an ARC due to having too many aggravating things going on in my life at the time (and said aggravations have not lessened sadly) and could not dedicate the time to give the book a decent review.
Now you have someone who is willing to listen to your emotionality.
Likewise, talk with him about his "traumatic’ past (if he has one).