Everything really is temporary, and all we can do is cherish what we have while we have it. Gratitude, and mindfully holding on to this moment.
If you have a relationship with God, your faith may be a huge source of comfort, healing, and peace.
“How can you move on when you can’t let go of the dream that defines who you are, who you were made to be?
” asks Ann on Words of Comfort When Your Heart is Broken.
If you’re completely shocked that he’s already in a new relationship, then you may have a more difficult time accepting it.
On the other hand, if you knew he was a player – or if he cheated on you – then you may not be surprised that he’s already dating.
The only thing that gives me comfort is this: no one gets to keep anything here.
Then his new relationship is heartbreaking – and my heart goes out to you. Accept that this relationship is over – and remember that “Relationships are like glass.
But remember: you are stronger than you think, braver than you realize, and tougher than you know! Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than to try to put them back together.” My first tip is the most important one, which is why I’ll probably repeat it at the end of this article.
What works for me (or your sister or best friend) may not work for you – especially if you’re surprised and devastated that your ex is already in a new relationship.
You need to try different things to help yourself heal and move forward.