It helps if you’re already turned on before you talk on the phone.
That way, you’re not going from, “Listen to this annoying ass thing that happened to me at the grocery store today,” to “you like that?
”Your partner will give their own clues as to whether or not you’re hitting the right buttons.
You might find yourself following along with your partner’s imagination, or you might be taking the reins yourself.
You know how Spotify free is like, SO GOOD until you hit an ad and inevitably hand over your credit card number for premium?
Try teasing your partner like you’re also a music streaming service who refuses to give in to Taylor Swift's demands.
Photos are not required to chat, but you will have much more fun in the gay chat rooms if you have one.
Lauren suggests, “Imagine I’m a sex robot you can program to do whatever you want. Imagine if I had done [insert alternative sexy activity].” Some jumping off points, should you need: “What if you realized I was wearing a strap-on under my bikini?
” or “What if we were invited by a sexy woman on the beach to have a threesome?
And feel free to use a pet bedroom name if you have one.
Lauren says to draw out your words using soft whispers and sprinkle in a few playful sighs here and there while you’re talking.