Or, maybe you realize you really do want someone who sees something greater in himself and is willing to do the scary work it takes to rise into that. Either way, you’re honing in on what works for you.And that’s a gift that only comes from putting yourself out there in as real a way as possible. social pressure) to slow yourself down or make yourself smaller to give the potential greatness in another person a chance to catch up with you're own.They are men who want to stretch and grow because of me and my influence, who feel that their own unique strengths can compliment mine.And I feel like I'm benefiting from their influence in equal measure.As such, women often instantly assume that because a man said it, that comment must be true. What can a guy like that offer to the woman who is already taking pretty good care of herself? So, don't internalize "you're intimidating." Sure, absolutely self-reflect.And if you find work within yourself needing to be done, by all means, learn from it and do better.Yes, the pool of prospective partners shrinks a bit the more you stand in your joy, confidence and power.Just use the hiccups to your advantage as you move closer to the "real thing." Triffany Hammond is a Certified Life Coach who teaches tools that help high-powered women realize their dreams of success AND happiness, professionally and personally.
Browbeat suggests the persistent application of highhanded, disdainful, or imperious tactics: browbeating a witness.
But, if you find that you are showing up whole, real and unassuming then keep on being your big, bold, bright self. use the experience with him to hone in on what you really want in a partner.
Men who feel good about who they are and what they bring to the table feel emboldened by happy, confident women, not diminished by them. Dating for strong, powerful woman is usually an ongoing process of elimination, and that's OK.
Knowing When to Act Adopting the Attitude Taking Action Community Q&A Being mean and intimidating all the time can be exhausting and won't help you make any friends.
However, there are times when it's absolutely necessary to scare people off a little bit and to assert yourself.