But as guys get older and the girls get older, lives start to get more stable and stagnated, and at times like these, the stable and predictable nice guy almost always wins over the reckless, adventurous guys.But can you really wait until you’re in your 40’s before you can start impressing women?Yes, there are different kinds of nice guys, and almost all of them aren’t really as good as they think they are. A regular guy may be nice to a girl, but a nice guy almost always ends up looking desperate and eager to please.One of the biggest problems with nice guys is how annoyed they are with the world. But are you the one stepping aside so a girl can walk past you into the elevator, or are you the nice guy who lies on the ground and lets any girl walk all over you into the elevator because the floor’s dirty? They try too hard to make a good impression, and eventually end up losing all chances of impressing a girl they like because they make it so obvious that they’re trying really hard to please.Instead, they try to get their point across through sneaky manipulation which can annoy any girl who hates feeling manipulated. They plot revenge secretly, but can’t man up and take a stand even if they know they’re right. And seriously, that’s just the wrong way to go about it.If you can’t fix your problem, why do you want another guy to do it for you?
And you have to understand this, girls don’t hate nice guys.But I don’t think any girl takes a bad boy seriously or gives him a thought beyond a one night stand. They’re both the two extremes of a spectrum that girls don’t care about. And a nice guy gives a girl a chance to have a man Friday to run her errands.The bad boy wants to have sex with the girl, the girl wants to have sex with this crazy guy, and there’s a happy ending by the next morning. Sure, she needs both these guys to have a better life.Almost all nice guys truly believe the world is unfair and all girls are liars because all girls say they like nice guys but end up walking all over these nice guys all the time. [Read: The real truth behind why girls never like you] Well, if you think you’re a nice guy who deserves the best girl in the world, here are a few things you need to ask yourself. [Read: The right way to text a girl and make her want you] Why are the other guys better than nice guys?Contrary to a nice guy’s belief, the world isn’t split into just two kinds of men, the nice guys and the bad boys.